Japan: In a different life…

This year I set foot on Japanese ground for the first time in my life. I was there for the last two weeks of April and managed to savour the remnants of cherry blossom season. If you recall from my first blog post, this has been a very long anticipated trip (I booked my flights 10 months in advance). And now, two months post Japan trip, I figured I should note my thoughts before they escape me.

In a different life, perhaps my next, I would like to be Japanese.

Sounds like a wacky shower thought. Maybe it is. But I genuinely believe the Japanese culture and lifestyle is special, and one that can only be fully realised by a person born and raised in Japan. Being a tourist is like getting a glimpse into someone’s home, you observe a different way of living, try new foods and attempt a foreign language, then you thank the hosts’ for their hospitality and you return to your own life.

Here in Melbourne, I have entirely re-integrated with my student life – final exams, empty wallets and all – but there are aspects of Japan that have stayed in the perimeters of my mind. I think these are the distinguishing factors that have given Japan its stellar reputation.

The Quiet

I arrived in Tokyo at night so I didn’t notice it immediately, but it is insanely quiet in Japan. On day time streets, comfortable silence is filled only by the sound of nature and machinery, the subway is hushed even when it’s crowded, everything and everyone seems to be under a calm spell. And I love it. I have never experienced anything like this before and was not expecting to encounter quiet in any city, let alone one in Asia. In short, it blew my mind. Japan would be an introvert’s (my) heaven on earth for this reason alone.

The People

Japanese people are very kind and I especially love the elderly. Having zero sense of direction and knowing only four and a half Japanese words meant I had to ask for help daily. I am so grateful for all the people who went out of their way to show me to my bus stop, and helped me translate the writing on my onigiri (gotta find the Tuna & Mayo one!) Moreover, they are the epitome of kawaii (cute) and set strong moral examples for tourists like me.

The Safety

This was the biggest culture shock I received during my time in Japan. Living in a Western society, I am constantly reminded to not leave my valuables unattended, to be cautious of walking alone at night, to avoid interactions with strangers, etc. However, I felt incredibly safe in Japan, even more so than in Melbourne. Young couples were walking their dog at midnight, and bags were left at coffee tables while the owners’ queued for their order – it was a new found mental freedom that was only possible in a society of trust.

The Distinct Japanese-ness

Japan has preserved its traditions and culture rigorously. Not just their temples and tea ceremonies, but everything, including youth areas and technological advancements are shaped by a force distinctly Japanese. In stark contrast to Melbourne, a microcosm of the world’s different cultures, Japan has allowed little influence from the outside. I think the benefits of homogeneity are clear in this post, but I have to admit, three quarters through my trip I began craving some Vietnamese Pho and Korean Bibimbap.

That is all for my Japan recount. If you are more interested in the sees & dos you can watch my day-to-day adventures in Tokyo, Osaka, Nara, and Kyoto in my vlog.



Weekend Getaway: Mornington Peninsula

Last week I drove down to Mornington Peninsula with my sister and friend on a spontaneous day trip to explore what Melbourne’s south-east coast had to offer. We departed around noon, after loading up on snacks and bubble tea for the journey, and arrived shortly after 1pm.

Because everything was planned last minute, the ‘plan’ really only consisted of getting from the suburbs to the coast – our main agenda was to enjoy the beach and witness an epic sunset. Luckily, the beach flowed through. The waters were clear and cool against our legs (profoundly refreshing on a 30 degree day), and the little coloured houses along the shore provided an aesthetic backdrop to several hundred photos.

Besides the beach though, you might be wondering if there is anything else worth seeing in Mornington Peninsula. And yes, yes there is. Unfortunately due to time restrictions (most sites close at 4-5pm) we weren’t able to visit all the places we wanted, but I’ll list them down anyway because I’m sure we’ll be heading back soon!

7 Things to See and Do in Mornington Peninsula

 Mornington Peninsula Information Centre: This was our first stop – a good place to start if you haven’t done much research. You can grab some information booklets which have conveniently collated all the surrounding sites and attractions. Also good for a toilet break.

 Eagle Skylift, Arthurs Seat: A relaxing 15 minute cable car ride to the top, during which you can enjoy the beach landscape from a Eagle’s eye view. Student/concession tickets were $21 for a return trip. Nice experience but not something I would pay to do again.

 Enchanted Adventure Garden: Located at the summit of the cable car ride, this is a lovely garden with tree surfing facilities and Australian wildlife chillin around. I regret passing on this garden but we just didn’t have enough time! Fortunately it is accessible without going on Arthurs Seat, so I will be back.

 Sunnyridge Strawberry Farm: Aww yes, the name says it all. We passed on the actual strawberry farming because it was too hot, and indulged on ice cream (Raspberry & Cappuccino) and Devonshire Tea (2 freshly baked scones with their famous jam and cream) instead. Also bought some jam as souvenir.

 Ashcombe Maze and Lavender Gardens: This is the real reason why I want to return. Human size hedge maze and beautiful lavender gardens – who could say no? Also, one of my favourite YouTubers was proposed to in this green labyrinth. Romance peaking.

 Peninsula Hot Springs: Something to enjoy in the colder season, Peninsula Hot Springs is one of two largest hot spring sites in Victoria. They’ve also got massages, outdoor yoga, dining, and more! Many people stay overnight for the full R&R experience.

 Any beach: I saved the best to last – it wouldn’t be a trip to Mornington Peninsula without some water action (or lack thereof). You can swim in the tranquil water, lay out a beach towel and read, or collect iridescent shells to bring home. Either way, I’m sure you’ll have a fine time (*disclaimer: if weather permits).

This little getaway gave me a chance to reflect on time. While I was lounging on the sand I realised how much of my life was wasted with unproductive weekends (mostly spent in bed), so I’m going to make an effort to get out more and lounge in new settings. I hope you take some time to do the same. Even if you have work to do, leave the library/office and try working under nature’s eye. A change of scenery could be what you need.



2016-2017 Summer Movies

In the era of Netflix, torrenting and online streaming, watching movies are a common way to wind down at night, but growing up, I remember raiding my local Video Ezy and Blockbuster stores for new release films instead. Maybe that’s why I enjoy seeing movies in theatre, it becomes a little adventure rather than a daily norm. In between final exams, the Taiwan trip, and summer subjects, I found time to see some movies on the big screen. Here are my thoughts…

Your Name: The hype is real, and so are the feels

Whether you’re a self proclaimed otaku, or a reluctant friend of one (in which case you have probably been gently bullied into watching one or all Studio Ghibli masterpieces), or a mysterious case Z that had no idea Japanese animation was even a thing, Your Name is a must. see. movie.

The illustrations and soundtrack are so brilliantly vivid you forget everything is animation, and you begin to wonder what form of sorcery was used to instil real emotions in the pixel characters. You can catch a glimpse of this magic in the trailer, here, (you’re welcome). What that trailer doesn’t prepare you for is the eccentric story line. My advice is to let your imagination flow.

The Edge of Seventeen: Oh em gee it’s an Asian

I’ve spent a quarter of my life subscribed to successful YouTubers like Wong Fu production and Community Channel who have justly criticised the “glass ceiling” met by Asians in the Western media/entertainment industry. Naturally, when I saw the trailer for The Edge of Seventeen, I was ecstatic to see an Asian male playing the lead’s romantic interest.

Behind the unassuming chick-flick genre, The Edge of Seventeen told an evocative story of growth laced with humour and rawness of personal experience. The protagonist, Nadine, can be frustrating at times as it seems most her problems are self-inflicted, however, this makes the win (seeing her mature) all the more rewarding. Movie highlights include Nadine’s conversations with the sassy teacher, and Asian guy’s endearingly awkward character.

La La Land: *jaw drop*

Seven Golden Globe Awards aside, La La Land is a movie for anyone who a) enjoys musicals b) have been waiting for a Ryan x Emma comeback since Crazy Stupid Love and/or c) is looking for an inspiring, feel-good, follow-your-passion kind of movie. I happen to be d) all of the above, and had the pleasure of watching this on New Years Eve with a lovely friend.

I’m sure like many others, I was already bought after watching the trailer. However, as the story unfolded, I became more emotionally invested in Seb and Mia’s life and relationship. Their perseverance and unfaltering support for each other’s passion inspired me to reflect on my upbringing, where ‘practicality’ prevailed over any creative career aspirations. Although I won’t be transferring from Commerce into Fine Arts any time soon, I now see more opportunities to be courageous in the pursuit of my own life goals.

A United Kingdom: How to be human

Unlike other films I had carefully researched before watching, it was an impulse decision to see A United Kingdom. It was also the first movie I ever saw alone, which freed me of probable mental distractions (e.g. “I hope Jenny likes my movie selection”).

This movie follows the true love story of the King of Botswana and a London office worker. Their old school courtship was a welcome digression from the modern day love plight, and even more heartfelt was the King’s love for his nation. In this film you are invited to reflect on racial dogma, how it divides and demeans the human race. And it shows you a love that rises above that. In essence, this story is captivating and will teach us all a lesson on how to be better humans.

Passengers: Crazy CGI

After seeing The Martian in late 2015, which I loved, I was 110% ready to watch another space themed movie. Needless to say,  the presence of Jennifer Lawrence (my Hollywood girl crush) was a contributing factor to my anticipation and excitement.

As the story progressed, my high hopes slowly deflated as I was constantly able to predict what would happen next, and characters were born as quick fix solutions. This is disappointing given the setting (futuristic spacepod holding people frozen in time) offered so much scope for a more compelling plot. One thing I loved was the phenomenal sound and production design which crafted mind-blowing realness in the sci-fi technology and serene galactic walks. Almost enough for me to dismiss the unfortunate plot flaws.



Our words, our world

Are you under 30? yup. Do you use social media? tick. Do you have friends? yes, bless them all.  

Nice, one more question.

What do you think about youth slang (e.g. lol, fml, lmao)? I wouldn’t use slang in a job interview but otherwise I’m cool with it. 

Same! Looks like we’re surfing the same wave length. Like most individuals, I use slang to connect with my friends (and people I want to be friends with). Our mutual understanding of abbreviated terms and obscure phrases reminds us that we’re the same – we’re young.

This study shows that speaking slang is similar to being bilingual when it comes to positive effects on memory. Which leads me to think: slang is not a ‘lazy’ form of English. As much as it is used to include and connect its users, those who cannot keep up with the constant changes in the language get left behind. It takes effort to stay in the know.

TLDR; slang helps us connect with people and boosts our brain power.

Let me ask you another question.

Do you use kms / fml / rip / ded in conversations? Or have you ever conveyed a neutral situation in a negative way?  Probably…

Yes, I do as well. Everyone who is equipped with youth slang has an enormous toolkit of negative words which they use to build negative conversations. Surprise!

That was meant to be sarcastic – except I was surprised when I reflected on my language use and discovered how much I was complaining and being pessimistic, when I didn’t necessarily feel that way. For example: “fml I have uni tmr”. But I love uni! I’m grateful that I get to go and learn interesting things about the world, and I’m happy to have opportunities to meet new people.

This linguistics theory, called The Sapir Whorf Hypothesis, suggests that the language you speak shapes the way you see the world, the way you think, and the way you behave. What if the language we use in our online conversations change our perspective of life, our real world behaviour and relationships for the worse?

I see the benefits of youth slang, but I also think a large part of it promotes a harmful culture. That’s why we should keep the good parts, the language that facilitates solidarity, and cleanse our system of the negatives. Here’s how:

  1. Think before you type. Is the situation negative or am I making it negative?
  2. Replace negative slang with positive slang. E.g. “fml yas I have work tmr”
  3. Make new words with your friends. Bonus points if they derive from typos.
  4. Just don’t use negative slang. Fullstop.

Change our words, change our world.



Taipei: Asia’s undervalued gem

A mysterious travel genie grants you a chance to visit any three countries in Asia.

Where do you want to go?

Your head is buzzing with the possibilities. You can already see the ludicrously cheap price tags. Your mouth waters with the thought of Asian street food, dumplings, and SUSHI. Okay, definitely Japan. Thailand for the beaches. And maybe Korea, Singapore or Vietnam to top it off.

Probably not Taiwan. Actually, Taiwan didn’t even cross your mind.

Well, same. For as long as I’ve had a travel bucket list, Taiwan was not on it. Why would it be? I’ve heard virtually nobody talk about it, and everyone raves about Japan.

Insert meme: ‘If you haven’t been to Japan, did you really go to Asia?’

Alas, I have not been to Japan (disclaimer: this will change in April 2017), but I have been to Taiwan. And as you may have deciphered from the title of this post: I. loved. Taiwan. The country was rich in culture, history, food, tourist hotspots, and entrepreneurial spirit. My only regret was not asking the street food vendors for their recipes – it’s struggle town here in Melbourne when the cravings hit hard.

Drawing from personal experience, here is my curated list of ‘Top 11 Things to See and Do in Taipei’.

  1. Shop and eat all the street food you can at Shilin Night Market
    • Out of all the night markets we visited, Shilin was a magical mix of the yummiest street food and best clothes/beauty stores. Please don’t leave without trying the Sweet Potato Balls. I am in love, and you will be too.
  2. Hike Elephant Mountain (at night)
    • Another disclaimer: I am not a fit person. For a regular hiker, Elephant Mountain probably isn’t considered a hike; it’s a quick up and down the staircase. For my fellow regular people, this hike is do-able, just remember to bring a drink bottle. The view is well worth it and definitely a better experience than Taipei 101, plus it’s free.
  3. Cycle through Old Caoling Tunnel
    • You can rent bikes from the stall nearby. Try the pedal bikes for a low key workout, or the electric tandem bikes for feelings of superiority when you whiz past other bikers.
  4. Take photos on Rainbow Bridge and chill by the Kee Long River
    • Bring food & drinks for a picnic! Otherwise there’s Raohe Night Market nearby.
  5. Buy clothes, souvenirs and Pineapple Cake in Ximending Shopping district
    • This is the prime location for youths of all cultures; it’s the Shibuya of Taipei. Super vibrant and lively district, and if you’re lucky, you may find someone selling Sweet Potato Balls here too. Bags and shoes were cheap cheap cheap!
  6. Feast on Beef Brisket Noodle Soup and Mango Shaved Ice in Dongmen
    • Best bowl of noodles I have ever consumed in my life. After coming back from Taiwan I watched a YouTube cooking tutorial on how to remake this signature dish, but the skill level required goes way beyond my egg-frying expertise. You have been forewarned.
  7. Pray to the love/money/study Gods at Longshan Temple
    • You can never have enough luck right? But if you do find the one you both have to return and give thanks to the Gods!
  8. Make a wish and release a sky lantern at Pingxi
    • The lanterns were a lot bigger than I anticipated (almost same height as me – 157cm) so you have a lot of writing space. Release the lantern with your friends for a special memory.
  9. Embrace the tea culture by making your own green tea at a tea farm
    • Besides gearing up in tea farming uniform, you also get to engrave your name on your personal tea cup, taste-test the accompanying tea snacks (I took a liking to the green tea lollies), and try a tea whisky if you want. Unfortunately, I have forgotten the name of the tea farm I visited.
  10. Re-enact the scenes from Studio Ghibli’s film, ‘Spirited Away’, in Jioufen
    • Spirited Away was the first anime film I ever watched so it was exciting to see the movie’s architectural inspiration. There are also many restaurants here where you can enjoy a relaxing dinner overlooking scenic mountains.
  11. It wouldn’t be a trip to Taiwan without pearl milk tea from 50Lan, and xiao long bao (steamed soup dumplings) at Din Tai Fung!
    • Pearl Milk Tea and Xiao Long Bao, all day every day.

That concludes my first blog post. If you ever encounter an idle travel genie, I hope you consider wishing a visit to Taipei!